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MUST READ... Every Man's Battle... Winning the War On Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker with Mike Yorkey  

Very honest, hard-hitting book on the issue of lust and how to combat it. Especially helpful for the man who has not yet become addicted to pornography or other sexual sin.

Addicted to ‘Love’ by Stephen Arterburn   

One of the classic Christian books on sex addiction, well researched and informative. 

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In our Resource Center, we have materials for individual and small group men's studies. Also, proven methods on how to develop a men's ministry within your church. Contact us for any of the materials shown here or with any questions.


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Sexual Struggles-The Challenge EVERY Man faces …..the FIGHT every man can WIN!!!

How are you dealing with the sexual sin epidemic that is sweeping across churches today via the Internet and other print and film venues? Men everywhere are living in bondage and fear of someone finding out!!

Many men are being challenged DAILY with sexual temptation….visual, mental or physical. It is a $12,000,000,000 industry in the United States!! It is a tool that the devil is using (unfortunately, very successfully) to separate men from God, their families, their jobs and $$$$. Depending on which study you read 15-70% of Christian men regularly act on this temptation….many are becoming sexually addicted. GOOD NEWS….there is help, hope and healing available to combat this temptation. Check out these resources. Want to talk with someone anonymously? Call Bob Schuemann 561-622-4913.


Every Man's Battle Seminar

 

 

Every Man’s Battle….Winning the WAR on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time….

New Four Week Series: The Gathering will present Every Man’s Battle to coach men to overcome the temptation of pornography and sexual addiction. This series offers men an opportunity to obtain help and hope in a safe environment. We use the resource EVERY MAN’S BATTLE by Steve Arterburn. 

This class will be held in The Gathering Resource Center,  7:00-9:00 PM, tuition is $30 includes book. Register today: 561-622-4913.

Testimonies from guys who have attended:

    • I have never had the opportunity to discuss sexual issues before. Now I can in a safe, Christian setting.

    • I have no idea where I would be today without this class. My life has taken on a new purpose and direction as a direct result of the honesty, openness and sharing that takes place as we look to God TOGETHER to heal us from the wounds of the past.

    • I thought this course would be narrowly focused to help me deal with my promiscuity. Instead it has transformed the way I relate to people in every part of my life. Praise God!

There is also an ongoing group of men who encourage men to be accountable and to “battle” this temptation victoriously. For information on this group or the next Every Man’s Battle class, call Bob Schuemann, 561-622-4913 or Email Bob.


Book Reviews: 

MUST READ... Every Man's Battle... Winning the War On Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker with Mike Yorkey 

Very honest, hard-hitting book on the issue of lust and how to combat it. Especially helpful for the man who has not yet become addicted to pornography or other sexual sin. 

Addicted to ‘Love’ by Stephen Arterburn   

One of the classic Christian books on sex addiction, well researched and informative. 

Breaking Free: Understanding Sexual Addiction & the Healing Power of Jesus by Russell Willingham   

Practical, biblical, and balanced, with an especially helpful perspective on why it’s difficult to recover from sexual addiction within the church. 

The Final Freedom by Douglas Weiss, Ph.D. 

Practical steps on how to get clean and stay clean. 

101 Practical Exercises: A Christian Guide for Sex Addiction Recovery by Douglas Weiss, Ph.D. (Available directly from Heart to Heart Counseling, P.O. Box 51055, Colorado Springs, CO 80949)

The workbook contains very helpful written exercises for the recovering addict, from early to later recovery. Most effective as part of a mentoring process, not as a stand-alone resource. 

The Pornography Trap by Ralph Earle & Mark Laaser

If you’re flirting with this devastating addiction, or if you’re counseling others who have already crossed the line, Earle & Laaser help you understand the core issues related to sexual sin and give insight into developing a biblical view of healthy sexuality. A must read for pastors and counselors!! 

Men’s Secret Wars by Pat Means   

The story of one Christian leader’s moral failure and recovery; the factors that lead to the formation of “secret lives” among Christian men. Includes Leader’s Guide for Group Study. 

Pure Desire by Ted Roberts   

A pastor presents the steps to healing sexual addiction from his own experience. 

When Good Men Are Tempted by Bill Perkins   

Highly readable book on temptation, by a pastor and popular men’s speaker. Possibly the best explanation in print on how God wired men sexually. Very educational for wives, although it will probably be upsetting. 

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Internet Sites

www.newlifepartners.org Online support for wives of sex addicts.

www.newlife.com Info on the many counseling resources available from the largest Christian counseling organization in the country.

http://www.prodigalsonline.org The web site of Prodigals International. 

http://www.pureintimacy.org/Focus on the Family’s Web site dealing with sexual addiction. User friendly and substantive.

www.sexaddict.com Dr. Douglas Weiss’ Web site. Many print and video resources listed.

http://www.purelifeministries.org/ Pure Life Ministries, ministry helps those who are bound up in habits of sexual sin.

http://www.settingcaptivesfree.com/   A great site FULL of resources. Online accountability!!

www.freedomeveryday.org To Encourage, Empower and Equip God’s people to live everyday in sexual integrity.

Internet Filters

Three Web sites are highly recommended for information on filtering Internet porn. Arguably the most helpful is http://www.getnetwise.org/ sponsored by AT&T. The site explains the various technology approaches to filtering, allows you to load in the criteria you want in a filter, and then shows you which technology best fits your preferences. A site that offers an analysis of filters from a Christian perspective is http://www.filterreview.com/  sponsored by The National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families. Though helpful, this site is not as detailed as the AT&T site. Finally, http://www.covenanteyes.com/ provides on-line accountability by not filtering, but tracking every site visited and sending a monthly activity report to two accountability partners. This tracks all sites passively and allows an accountability partner to keep the password so it can’t be disabled or secret ‘back doors’ found by the tech savvy. 

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